Today was the first day of school for Nico and I. This also means it's the first day of being gone from Eli ALL DAY!!!! So you know me... a turning point in our lives, so I have to take a picture.
We've been taking him to Betsy & Matt's house for small periods of time (3 hrs or so) and he's done pretty good. I on the other hand, have not. :) Ok, just the first day... I had a small breakdown leaving him. It had nothing to do with Betsy and Matt but everything with leaving him in the care of someone else. As I got busy during the day it was fine. I got used to being back in the swing of things and while I did think about him, I didn't get weepy.
Today, I did pretty good... I only got teary eyed, but no actual tears fell. I could see being emotional if your kid was attached to your leg and screaming for you not to got, but that was NOT the case. Eli loves it there. I sit him down to play and he doesn't even know I'm gone!! :)
But boy was I excited to see my son tonight after volleyball practice!! It was WONDERFUL!! We got him home and he was tired, so we knew we needed to put him to bed, but neither Nico or I wanted too because we hadn't seen him much. So... Eli ended up staying up a little later than usually playing with mom and dad while we ate our supper on the living room floor to be closer to him. :) Eventually we conceded that we needed to put him to bed and he's sleeping quite well!!
It's only the beginning of "first day of schools" and "going back to the babysitters".... I'm SURE with time we'll all get used to it!!
And just like that...he's 21!
2 months ago